Fu*ked Up Family Will Sell Fu*ked Up Tutorial
There’s an old saying, when kid gets beat up by his father, at his adult the kid will thanked his father in return for beating him when he’s still kid, and then hits back at his son and his wife.
That’s what happen to me today.
One of the member of some fuc*ed up families talks to me, and we’re debating on some, which to my objectivity, seem didn’t right and i want to make it straight again. I keep telling her about my point and why i think it’s not right, but she keep telling me her stories and her point about my point, which to her experience (she’s old, for sure) are the best things for everyone.
Now, i don’t want to make the wrong impressions. I respect other people’s opinion. A lot, i may say.
But the problem is, after we……er….debates for about fifteen minutes, her tone becomes too high, and she keep cutting me when i want to talk. And after a while, she strike me with her opinion about MY way to talk. She said i’m talking like old guy, but too young…that i have no money to help, so if YOU DON’T HAVE MONEY TO HELP, THEN KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. Ad Hominem? I’m just trying to express my opinion, and hold up to it, while i’m hoping that my partners can challenge me in ideas way, not emotional way.
I love when people challenge my idea, with idea!!! Not with emotional way and keep striking me in personal way. And in final she says, when some fu*ked up families can do it, why don’t you? Wow….my theory has been proved. Woo Hooo!!!
*Baru balik dah debat…pake acara tangis2an lagi
kok jadi gini ya…..nambah lagi deh list “gak pantes untuk ngomong” gw :
1. Rambut belom botak? Diem aja deh lu
2. Gak punya duit? Diem aja deh lu
Tuhan…..adilkanlah dunia dan berikan yang terbaik pada mereka……sementara untukku….berikanlah aku ketenangan….amin.